Effortless Expansion Episode #027: How To Accomplish Your Goals In 2023
Gone are the days when I would sit on New Year's Eve and write out all the things I wanted a zillion times.
I know I’m not the only one who spends the evening furiously writing my goals down over and over and over again.
That version of myself has matured and I have since let go of forcing, hustling, pushing, or striving to “get my goals to manifest.”
My approach now is much different. Now I have a balance of divine feminine and divine masculine, flow and structure. This actually supports me and has given me far better results. So this new year, I'm inviting you guys to do it differently, too.
Here are 3 steps you can follow to ACTUALLY accomplish your goals in 2023:
Get really, really, really clear on what you want.
Please refrain from fooling yourself with super vague statements like:
I want to get healthier in 2023
I want to achieve success in 2023
I want to get better in 2023
Those all are great places to start but they are waaaaay too vague. In order to succeed you need to know EXACTLY what it is that you want. You want to achieve success? Ok great– what would have to happen for you to be able to feel that you’ve arrived at your goal? Is there an amount of dollars you want to make, clients you want to serve, etc. When you aim at nothing you’ll hit it every time.
Another thing I often see is women who have a hard time identifying what they want or are afraid to claim their big desires. Listen, you don’t have to tell anyone what you want but you must be honest with yourself.
Identify WHY you want what you want and define how you will feel once you get it.
This isn’t about what you think you should want.
This isn’t about what you want because Sally down the street has it.
This isn’t what your spouse or children want.
What do YOU want? And how will you feel once you get it?
Can you imagine for a moment what it would truly feel like to have it? Let a movie play on the screen of your mind. The more you can anchor into these feelings the more magnetic your energy is going to be. This is so important.
Build the belief
Now that you know what it would feel like to have your desire, decide right now that you are THAT kind of person.
You dress like she would.
You act like her.
You smell like her.
You work out like her.
You walk like her.
You talk like her.
Create a new identity for yourself based on the new belief that you are the kind of person who already has what it is that you desire.
If you take my advice here, I know you will pull your desires closer to you. It would be unreasonable to think otherwise.
Send me a DM and tell me what you want! I want to hear about your desires and your thoughts on this process. I love hearing from listeners and it would brighten my day to be able to connect with you!
I am calling in three more magical women for The Unknown. This is my sacred one-on-one space where together, we spend three months navigating the unknown– aka. the space between where you are right now and where you desire to be. I know most people hate it here, but to be honest, it is one of my favorite spaces to be in simply because there are so many lessons to learn. You know me and my love for growth. When you fully surrender to the unknown you strip away anything that isn’t serving you and learn to deeply trust the universe. It’s the process of becoming, remembering more of yourself and deciding where you're going.
In this sacred one-on-one space, you and I go deep in family, life, business, relationships– everything about being the woman who lives her limitless life, who fully embodies it in desire, power in luxury. At the end of our three months together you will no longer be looking over your shoulder for your manifestations, you will have a deep understanding of how to get what you want. So if you're desiring to go deeper in your spiritual journey and the unknown is the space where you find it restrictive and difficult and find yourself always searching for your desires, I want to invite you in. This is my specialty.
I've learned to master the unknown, and it is my honor, my joy, and my privilege to mentor others in this space, in The Unknown. If you feel called, let’s do it. I’ve got three spots open. This is the year for you to get big and bold and brave, and nothing changes. If nothing changes.
I know it might be scary because you can't see the next five steps, but the truth is, you only need to know the very next step. So if you feel aligned, I'll see you inside. You can DM me on Instagram for more information or you can follow this link here.
I love you and I am so excited to serve you.